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01-Feb-2017 23:14

Not too long ago, one of my children was estranged from me. In reality, it has caused far more damage for everyone. I moved with a limp that constantly reminded me of how much I missed her and what a hole she left. She has come home and gone again more times than I can count. The horror and the certainty of it hang over my heart. She didn’t have to deal with me or the rest of the family.For reasons she still doesn't fully understand, Marcus stayed with his father on school breaks and seemed to call his mother only to chastise her."I'd be walking down the street with tears streaming down my face, cellphone to my ear, listening to Marcus telling me all the ways I'd failed him," she recalls. At the time, I wasn’t completely sure where she was living and had no reliable way to contact her. It would be one thing if the estranged parent had abused the child.

Some parents feel so hurt or overwhelmed by the divorce that they may turn to the child for comfort or direction."I'd done the best I could with my son, and clearly it wasn't enough." Despite her efforts, their relationship remained tense and distant."Every day that goes by, I'm missing more of his life," Deborah told us last fall, her voice thick with grief.Coleman, author of When Parents Hurt: Compassionate Strategies When You and Your Grown Child Don't Get Along, expected about 50 parents to sign up for the first series. Save Money: Get AARP member discounts on travel, shopping and more What's behind such family fractures?

Coleman blames them in part on a me-first mentality that he says is weakening parent-child relationships.

A disturbance in this development can create problems in childhood, adolescence, and adult life.

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